Want to feel a little smug? Ignore your inner critic.

by Jennifer Hooper on January 16, 2012

This is my first book.  It’s called “Begin Again.”

While this single story may not seem like a big deal, when I see it in a physical form, I feel very accomplished.

Because this book represents a baby step in my journey toward becoming a writer, something that has niggled at me for a long time, but which I have mostly ignored.

So when I touch, hold, flip through, and read this book, I swim in the space of accomplishment, which tells me I’m walking on the right path for me, stepping onto an exciting path of discovery.

Even better? I stood in front of a group of friends and strangers and read this story out loud.  Not perfectly:  I awkwardly jumped into the reading, forgetting to introduce myself.  I got a little choked up at the end. I got unsolicited advice on how to improve my performance skills.

Oh well.

I’m okay with all that.  All those mistakes and mis-steps provide rich soil for further growth. What’s important in this experience is that I ignored my inner critic.  I slammed my door on her and wouldn’t listen to her yelling and kicking and screaming on the other side, trying to convince me that I (and my story) was worthless.

Don’t let your inner critic hold you back.  Be stronger than she is.  Prove him wrong.  Tell her to eff off.  Show him up.  Because when you do, you will feel proud, victorious, and even just a little big smug.  You too will swim in the space of accomplishment, and you will trust that your path is more important than that critical inner voice.

So what’s my story about?  It’s about a woman who silently feels the inner pain of everyone she meets; the pain that they keep locked up and never discuss.  She feels it and does what she can to help them ease their pain just a little bit.

If you’d like to read the story, email me, and I’ll send you a copy.  (Hit the QR code too…it will take you to a couple more pieces of my writing that you can’t get any other way.)

Thanks for stopping by.  I’m humbled.  And grateful.

Jennifer

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Feeling Blissfully “Chill”

by Jennifer Hooper on January 2, 2012

I can’t remember the last time I felt so—well—chill.

I am at the tail-end of a vacation during which I have joyfully recharged my batteries by enjoying the Christmas holidays, catching up with dear friends, sleeping late, working out, reading, shopping at the health food store, cooking, and watching several movies on the couch with a glass of wine.  I have relaxed and giggled more than I can remember in a long time.

I feel patient, enthusiastic, energized, and joyful.  Strangers smile at me at the grocery store.  Friends remark on how happy I look (some with a look of envy in their eyes).  New ideas are simmering; sparks of new creation are flying.

This experience reminds me of what I already know: that when I feel good, my life experiences evolve and unfold in remarkable ways.

As I look at the year ahead, I am reminded to only pursue those endeavors that feel good, whether it’s due to excitement, contentment, or interest.  This vacation serves as a roadmap for the year ahead, in which I make room for rest, laughter, and curiosity even as I work, study, and parent.

The year 2011 was a huge year of transition for me.  With those transitions now behind me, I look forward to 2012 with much eagerness and expectation of growth with abundant doses of play, laughter, and fun.

Happy New Year!

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Protect Your Head Space

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